Just my opinion of course Aaron, but I had a cousin that I was super close with. Sounds a lot like you and your cousin. He was more of a brother than cuz to me. He would do a lot of stuff like you mentioned and would use me as the cover up. you know the hey I was with Adam thing. Well when it finally got crazy enough for me I had to back away and just love him from a distance. Pretty much what Chris was saying. One thing I have found out in my soon to be 40 years is, you can't help someone that doesn't really want it. Sorry for your situation though buddy.