QUOTE (ahwahoo2006 @ Mar 4 2008, 06:34 AM) QUOTE (zeppyrkr @ Mar 4 2008, 02:21 PM) also , no im not in hs I apologize for assuming. QUOTE she calls me multiple times a day, ive tried so many times to cut it off and ill plan on it call her, and then by the end of the convo i realize that were still where we were. You have a few options 1) Don't answer the phone when she calls. Don't listen to her messages. Don't call her. 2) If you don't think you have the self-control for the previous option, call your phone company and ask to have her number blocked. They will do this for free or for a small charge - but it will be worth it. You need to step back and not put yourself in positions where she can manipulate you or your emotions. Take some responsibility. I definitely agree with the options here. She sounds like she wants to have her cake and eat it too by keeping you on the back burner. Like people have said, if it's not this guy, it'll be someone else.. and you'll keep getting hurt because of it, so I would just cut her out of my life. Like you said, she knows exactly what to do and say to hook you back into being attached to her, so don't answer those phone calls. Hopefully that will send her a message that you don't want to take BS and you'll eventually have space to move on too. It's tough, but I wish you the best of luck!