[quote name='mustafabey' date='23 June 2010 - 04:08 PM' timestamp='1277327286' post='472625']
Buddha recommended the middle road, that means balance.Unless you are willing to become a renunciate or enter a monastery, its very hard to lead a spiritual life in the midst of all this noise.. The middle road works well, you're not going to find enlightenment, but you may find peace. Buddha worked this out in his life, born with a silver spoon, son of king, he gave up the world and sought to renounce all comforts and subjected his body to much denial and pain, That wasn't the answer either. He realized he needed to eat, etc, live in the world. Its a great oversimplification, but simplicity is part of it. Zen is wonderful, if you can make the commitment, i rather feel zen is not a part time job.
In India, tradition has you go thru four phases of life, the last of which is a retirement that stresses spirituality.It gives you time to grow, time to learn, time to enjoy, time for family, but in the last part of your life you enter the period of the spiritual quest.
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I definitely agree. At this stage in my life, especially working in sales I have more stresses in my life. However the time made for meditation and exploration of my path has been fufilling. I do enjoy smoking a heavier shisha, like Tangiers, as it does help me relax and focus on the topics of discussion whether of the life of the Buddha or the balance of life in the world.